Simple and easy
While I am a girl who loves her colors, I believe you can still stand out (if you would like) with a simple yet effective neutral look. Skinny jeans, a great statement necklace, simple clutch and the perfect pair of heels (for you), and you are all set for catching up with your girlfriends or an early date with your fella.
Usually, I don't leave an opinion, but you're writing is great.